I've written before on this topic but yesterday I was talking to one of my alumni and it triggered me to rewrite on this topic. I want your input as to why this exists so much in our society.

Why are we so concerned about Zaat. I mean I understand if you want the same sect because it might become difficult once you have kids. I would definitely want my children to choose partners who are practicing muslims. But nothing more than that.

Why would I be worried about the Zaat. My husband is Syed. But we have not for a second ever thought that my kids have to marry a Syed. Same rule applies for my daughter and sons.

I mean it's funny when you know the couple will live abroad but you insist that Zaat has to be the same. Aray bhai wo to shaadi karkai chalay jai gai. Saal mai aik chakar lagai hai. So itna dur rahay kai apko kiya farq paray ga kai wo kis Zaat sai hai.

I mean if your child falls in love, do the homework. Homework of ensuring larka sincere hai, honest hai, dhokaybaaz to nai hai. Khara hai, sacha hai, khudaar hai. Worry about lalchi hai, parents ka ruwaiya kaisa hai. Ghar ka mahol theek hai.

But if you think larka acha hai, khuda ka wasta hai kiya karna hai Zaat ko. Os zaat ka kia faida jo zaat ka ho lekin aik lalchi khabees insaan ho.

Jub ap apnay betray ya beti ko khush rakhay gai, apko air kiya chahyee. Bacho ki khushi kai liyay he to hum sub kuch qurbaan kar detay hai to phir shaadi pai akay hum kyun behis hojatay hai.

Khatam Karo yai zaat. Acha insaan aj kal.bohot mushkil sai milta hai. Agar is insaan mai sari achaya hai to please zaat ko khatam kardo.

Geo aur jeenay do.